Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Giving Human Gifts
In this time of shopping, buying and wrapping presents to give, I'm thinking about a different kind of gift giving... human gifts.
What is a human gift? It is a gift of time and love. Some examples: a supportive email or phone call to a family member or friend in need, fixing a meal for someone close to you, shoveling the snow off the sidewalk of a neighbor, taking a walk with someone close to you.
These human gifts don't cost money. You don't have to shop for them. You don't need to wrap them. You just need to be creative in giving your time.
As a child I remember giving my Mom the "gift" of "ten lawn mowings without complaining." I think she appreciated this gift more than any store-bought gift.
Although I enjoy receiving store-bought gifts, it is what they represent that is more important: that someone took the time to think about what I would like and then took the time to get it.
There is something deeply spiritual about any act of giving. Yet, giving human gifts seems to nourish the soul in a richer way.